Have you ever told yourself “I love you” and really meant it?
Sometimes, it is really frickin hard. Try standing in front of a mirror and repeating, “I love you”, over and over again. This can feel super awkward but it is a powerful way to check in with how you are feeling about yourself.
I spent a lot of my life dis-accomodating myself, not giving myself even small doses of what I REALLY needed in order to truly be my best. Not loving myself enough to acknowledge what I really needed to do for myself and having that be ok. And by dis-accomodating, I mean choosing to not make time and space for thinking about what I needed and then slowing down to create space so that it COULD happen…naturally inviting that self-love into my life.
That system worked quite well for a lot of years but when I reached a new decade a few years ago, I decided it couldn’t continue. There had to be more and I could definitely be better. I didn’t want to care what the moms at school thought, or who is doing what better than me on social media. The idea that I was not driving in the direction of my best me and what I LOVED, was causing excess worry, anxiety, and especially overwhelm. Just spending too much time consumed with what not in alignment with what was actually most important. That feeling of never being truly relaxed and at peace inside. I feel like a lot of us know how that feels.
So, I committed to then new, consistent and gentle ways of learning to really fully accommodate what I needed.